Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Eight Gifts that Do Not Cost a penny!




1. THE GIFT OF LISTENING...
But you must REALLY listen.
No interrupting, no daydreaming,
No planning your response.
Just listening.


2. THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...
Be generous with appropriate hugs,
Kisses, pats on the back, and handholds.
Let these small actions demonstrate the
Love you have for family and friends.


3. THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER...
Clip cartoons.
Share articles and funny stories.
Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."


4. THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE...
It can be a simple
"Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet.
A brief, handwritten note may be remembered
For a lifetime, and may even change a life.


5. THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT.. .
A simple and sincere,
"You look great in red,"
"You did a super job,"
Or "That was a wonderful meal"
Can make some one's day.


6. THE GIFT OF A FAVOR...
Every day, go out of your way
To do something kind.


7. THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better
Than to be left alone.
Be sensitive to those times and give
The gift of solitude to others.


8. THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION. ..
The easiest way to feel good is
To extend a kind word to someone.
Really, it's not that hard to say,
Hello or Thank You.





Yogurt




A cup of Yogurt a Day, is a way of keeping the doctor away!

Research proves that yoghurt is not just a food accompaniment, a dessert or merely a diet food. There is growing evidence to show that it is packed with microscopic warriors - Beneficial bacteria's that are essential for good health. It is also a nutritional goldmine.

According to the National Institute of Nutrition, Hyderabad, India, a cup
of yoghurt (250 mg) contains 370 mg of calcium (compare that with 300 mg in 250 ml of milk). This is 30-40 per cent of most adults' daily needs.

Besides, at eight grams of protein per cup, yoghurt meets 20-25 per cent of adults' average daily requirements. It is also a good source of Vitamin B (including folacin) and phosphorus. In addition, a cup of yoghurt contains 250 mg of potassium - almost as much as a banana does.

"If you want to have your own stockpile of B vitamins without having to buy them, eat yoghurt. By a strange chemistry, it sets up an efficient little factory in the intestinal tract and manufactures B vitamins for you," says Pratima Kaushik, chief dietician at the Vidyasagar Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences, Delhi, India.

Besides, yoghurt also provides lactic acid, which aids protein, calcium and iron assimilation.

For those on a low-calorie diet, yoghurt is a boon in any case. "Easily available anywhere, it is a snack that tastes great at any time of the day; it is low in calories and can be sufficiently filling when combined with a high-fibre vegetable or fruit," says Dr Shikha Sharma of Clinic deRejuvenation, Delhi, India. The benefits of yoghurt go beyond its nutritional value and low-calorie appeal.

The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, in an article published in 2000, says, "Increased yoghurt consumption may enhance the immune response, which would, in turn, increase resistance to immune-related diseases."
In addition, yoghurt plays an important role in restoring the digestive tract to its normal condition after a course of antibiotics.

"The drugs often wipe out every bacterium in their path, good and/or
bad, altering the natural balance of the digestive tract. When harmful bacteria dominate the intestine, essential nutrients are not produced and the levels of damaging substances like carcinogens and toxins rise. By killing the harmful `bugs,' yoghurt helps maintain a healthy balance of intestinal bacteria," says Dr. Mridula Chichra, a Delhi-based gynecologist.

In the Indian context, particularly, doctors and practitioners of alternative medicine, often recommend yoghurt to patients recovering from diarrhea, and help ease other intestinal tract ailments.

Elixir for women: Women stand to benefit immensely from yoghurt.

The risk of this infection increases during pregnancy, diabetes or when a woman is on birth control pills. "Taking yoghurt that contains natural bacteria and yeasts helps re-establish the equilibrium," says Pratima.

A study conducted by E. Hilton et al (Annals of Internal Medicine) in 1992 found that yoghurt consumption decreased v-infections three-fold. "A particular feature of infection is the reduction or absence of lactobacilli in the v- flora. Yoghurt is full of lactobacilli, hence, the logic in its use," explains Dr. Mridula.

Then, of course, there is osteoporosis, especially in women. Studies have shown that most people consume far less calcium than the recommended daily levels, which could cause osteoporosis. While there are many calcium supplements that are not readily or effectively absorbed, yoghurt provides an excellent source of easily absorbed calcium.

That is not all. Daily consumption of yoghurt also helps improve complexion, making it more radiant.

A word of caution, though. The fruited varieties of yoghurt are high in calories, even though it has a low-fat profile. "The jams and fruit concoctions added for flavor can dump in as much as seven teaspoons of sugar per cup and more than double the calories. So, go easy on these, particularly when calories are a concern," says Dr. Shikha. If you want a fruit flavor but do not want to miss calcium or gain calories, mix chopped fruit with yoghurt. You will get all the calcium, and the extra vitamins and fiber from the fruit.

However, to be effective, yoghurt must contain sufficient amount of`"live lactic /cultures," meaning it must be `fresh.' Make it at home, is Dr. Shikhas' advice. Alternatively, when buying it, look for packing as close to the date of manufacture as possible to get maximum beneficial bacteria. She adds, "Always keep it cold, as the helpful bacteria in yoghurt cannot withstand high temperatures."

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A Thought



Fascinating, we have never given most of this a thought!

God's accuracy may be observed in the hatching of eggs.

For example:

-the pegs of the potato bug hatch in 7 days; those of the canary in 14 days;

-those of the barnyard hen in 21 days;

-The eggs of ducks and geese hatch in 28 days;

-those of the mallard in 35 days;

-The eggs of the parrot and the ostrich hatch in 42 days.

(Notice, they are all divisible by seven, the number of days in a week!)

God's wisdom is seen in the making of an elephant...

The four legs of this great beast all bend forward in the same direction. No other quadruped is so made. God planned that this animal would have a
huge body, too large to live on two legs...

For this reason, He gave it four fulcrums so that it can rise from the ground easily.


The horse rises from the ground on its two front legs first.

A cow rises from the ground with its two hind legs first.

How wise the Lord is in all His works of creation!


God's wisdom is revealed in His arrangement of sections and segments, as well as in the number of grains.


-Each watermelon has an even number of stripes on the rind.

-Each orange has an even number of segments.

-Each ear of corn has an even number of rows.

-Each stalk of wheat has an even number of grains.

-Every bunch of bananas has on its lowest row an even number of bananas, and each row decreases by one, so that one row has an even number and the next row an odd number.


-The waves of the sea roll in on shore twenty-six to the minute in all kinds of weather.

All grains are found in even numbers on the stalks, and the Lord specified thirty fold, sixty fold, and a hundred fold - all even numbers.

God has caused the flowers to blossom at certain specified times during the day, so that

Linnaeus, the great botanist, once said that if he had a conservatory containing the right kind of soil, moisture and temperature, he could tell the time of day or night by the flowers that were open and those that were closed!

The Lord may order the lives of each of you in a beautiful way for His glory, if you will only entrust Him with your life. If you try to regulate your own life, it will only be a mess and a failure.

Only the One Who made the brain and the heart can successfully guide them to a profitable end.


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પાણી યોગ્ય સમયે પીવાની



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એક રસપ્રદ માહિતિ -તાજેતર માં  પાણી યોગ્ય સમયે પીવાની  એક ઇ -મેલ થકી મળી જે નીચે પ્રમાણે  .....


એક કાર્ડિ ડોક્ટર ને પૂછવામાં માં આવ્યું હતું, કે  "લોકો ને રાત્રે  શા માટે  વધુ પેશાબ થાય છે?"
  કાર્ડિ  ડોક્ટર પાસેથી જવાબ: 

Gravity holds water in the lower part of your body when you are upright. When you lie down and the lower body (legs and other things) seeks level with the kidneys, it is then that the kidneys remove the water because it is easier. This then ties in with the last statement!

 પાણી પીવાનો યોગ્ય સમય:

... ખૂબ જ મહત્વનું એક  કાર્ડિ  નિષ્ણાત ના મતે......

Drinking water at a certain time maximizes its effectiveness on the body:

2 ગ્લાસ પાણી સવારે જાગ્યા પછી  - આંતરિક અંગો [internal organs ]ને સક્રિય કરે છે.
1 ગ્લાસ પાણી  ભોજન પહેલાં 30 મિનિટ  - પાચન કરવામાં મદદ કરે છે
1 ગ્લાસ પાણી  બાથ લેવા પહેલાં -  બ્લડ પ્રેશર નીચે લાવવામાં મદદ કરે છે.
1 ગ્લાસ પાણી રાત્રે સુવા જતાં  પહેલાં  - સ્ટ્રોક અથવા હૃદયરોગનો હુમલો કરવાનું ટાળે છે।.


 
Add to this...  A physician told  that drinking water at bed time will also help prevent night time leg cramps [a painful involuntary contraction of a muscle]. Your leg muscles are seeking hydration when they cramp and wake you up with a Charlie Horse.   

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Thirty things to Stop Doing to Yourself



  
When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.

As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”  Nothing could be closer to the truth.  However, before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back.
Here are some ideas to get you started:

  • Stop spending time with the wrong people. –Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.  If someone wants you in their life, they will make room for you.  You should not have to fight for a spot.  Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.  In addition, remember, it is not the people that stand by your side when you are at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you are at your worst that are your true friends.

  • Stop running from your problems. –Face them head on.  No, it will not be easy.  There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at him or her.  We are not supposed to be able to instantly solve problems.  That is not how we are made.  In fact, we are made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall.  Because that is the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time.  This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.

  • Stop lying to yourself. –You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you cannot lie to yourself.  Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.  Read The Road Less Traveled.

  • Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.  Yes, help others; but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

  • Stop trying to be someone you are not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else.  Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you.  Do not change so people will like you.  Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

  • Stop trying to hold onto the past. – You cannot start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.

  • Stop being scared to make a mistake. – Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.  Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success.  You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.

  • Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us.  We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past.  However, you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.  Everything that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

  • Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many of the things we desire are expensive.  However, the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are very free – love, laughter and working on our passions.

  • Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. – If you are not happy with who you are on the inside, you will not be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either.  You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else.  Read Stumbling on Happiness.

  • Stop being idle. – Don’t think too much or you will create a problem that was not even there in the first place.  Evaluate situations and take decisive action.  You cannot change what you refuse to confront.  Making progress involves risk.  Period!  You cannot make it to second base with your foot on first.

  • Stop thinking you are not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we will not feel very comfortable at first.

  • Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely.  It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.  There is no need to rush.  If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.

  • Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones did not work. – In life you will realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you.  However, most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

  • Stop trying to compete against everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others doing better than you.  Concentrate on beating your own records every day.  Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.

  • Stop being jealous of others. – Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own.  Ask yourself this:  “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”

  • Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you.  You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough.  However, reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past.  You will often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation.  So smile!  Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

  • Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart.  You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.  Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.”  It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”  Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate you!  In addition, remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it is for you too.  If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.

  • Stop letting others bring you down to their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.

  • Stop wasting time explaining you to others. – Your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe it anyway.  Just do what you know in your heart is right.

  • Stop doing the same things repeatedly without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you do not have time for it.  If you keep doing what you are doing, you will keep getting what you are getting.  Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.

  • Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.  The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.

  • Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real world does not reward perfectionists; it rewards people who get things done.  Read Getting Things Done.

  • Stop following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.  Do not take the easy way out.  Do something extraordinary.

  • Stop acting like everything is fine if it is not. – It is okay to fall apart for a little while.  You do not always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well.  You should not be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it is healthy to shed your tears.  The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

  • Stop blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.  When you blame others for what you are going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.

  • Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burns you out.  However, making one-person smile CAN change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.  So narrow your focus.

  • Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.  One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask you this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?  Three years?  Five years?”  If not, then it is not worth worrying about.

  • Stop focusing on what you do not want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.  Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.  If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you will often find that you are right.

  • Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life.  Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for his or hers.  Instead of thinking about what you are missing, try thinking about what you that has everyone else is missing.

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Ten Winter foods



 
Eat these foods that help stay fit in winter –

Sore throats, running nose, sinusitis, high temperature, cold and cough are all common problems in winter. Moreover, our appetite tends to increase during this season, as our body needs more energy to keep itself warm. However, if you eat indiscriminately, there is a high chance that you might put on weight. Hence, what you need is to not just eat more, but also to eat right. This will help you keep your weight in check and combat ailments of the season.

1.   Garlic

This commonly used spice contains allicin, a chemical that has many medicinal properties. Allicin in garlic is released as soon as the clove of the garlic is crushed and starts degrading if left unused. So make sure you peel and crush the garlic cloves just before using them. It strengthens the immune system, thereby protecting you against infections. Garlic also has anti-bacterial, anti-fungal and anti-viral properties. Further, it helps scavenge free radicals and lower cholesterol levels. Hence, it is good for people with heart disease.

2. Ginger

Ginger helps digest fatty foods and break down protein. When consumed, it produces heat, which has a natural decongesting action. It is hence recommended in cold, cough, flu and headaches. It also eases heartburn and is commonly used in tea for flavoring.

3. Honey

Honey is an instant energy booster as it directly gets absorbed in the blood stream. Due to its anti-microbial properties, it is beneficial in sore throat. It is also an effective anti-allergic, helping prevent seasonal allergies. You can apply it to chapatti/bread or to milk as a sweetener. When applied to the skin in winter, it helps keep the skin hydrated as it attracts water and prevents drying.

4. Green leafy vegetables

A wide variety of fresh green leafy vegetables like spinach, fenugreek and amaranths are readily available in this season. Not only do they add taste and variety to food, but also have numerous health benefits. They are packed with lots of minerals like potassium, iron, calcium and magnesium and are a rich source of vitamins like K, E, B, folic acid and most importantly vitamin C, which builds immunity. Green leafy vegetables also contain phytonutrients. So take the seasonal advantage and include as many greens in your diet as you can; it is the best time to eat these.

5. Sweet potatoes

Sweet potatoes are known as ‘winter’s staple’. They are a dense source of vitamins A and C, both of which have strong anti-oxidative properties that remove free radicals from the body and lower the risk of infections and inflammations. They are a high fibre food that is good for your digestive health. The peculiar aroma of sweet potatoes is known to cure nasal congestion. It also keeps the body warm.

6. Sesame seeds

Sesame seeds are loaded with magnesium, copper, calcium, vitamin B and vitamin E. They provide heat to the body after digestion, which is helpful in winters. Regularly having sesame seeds prevents high blood pressure. You can roast the seeds and add to salad or to the dough while kneading breads/chapattis.

7.  Carrots

Carrots, especially the red variety, are easily one of the favourite vegetables of the season. They are a rich source of beta-carotene, which gets converted into vitamin A—the vitamin that gives you good sight. Being a solid source of antioxidants, they boost immunity by fighting free radicals. The phytochemicals present in carrots bestow on them antiviral and antibacterial properties.

8. Citrus fruits

Citrus fruits like oranges and sweet limes are rich sources of vitamin C. Citrus fruits are highly recommended during the winter season to not only prevent flu and cold, but also as a curative measure. Apart from vitamin C, citrus fruits are rich in vitamin K, thiamine, niacin and dietary fibre. They are also good for toning the skin during winter.

9. Peanuts

Peanuts generally misconstrued as nuts are the part of legume bean family. They are also known to boost energy levels and are a powerhouse of protein. They are rich in coenzyme Q10, which is known to decrease the risk of heart ailments, migraines and headaches. So grabbing a handful of peanuts every day in winter is good for you.

10. Tea

Nothing is as comforting and refreshing as sipping a hot cup of tea during winters. Tea is a rich source of antioxidants and amino acids. It acts as an immunity booster due to the presence of antioxidants and boosts mental alertness because of the amino acids. Green tea and black tea are the most beneficial varieties.

So, enjoy the winters with these versatile and tasty foods loaded with numerous health benefits.

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